Working out should make you happy!
You workout to improve your fitness and life, but is your workout pissing you off?
By: Coach David de Leon
Lately I have noticed a trend in athletes during both training and competition that I believe is a key factor in their inability to see results. What is this change? Bad temper and unhappiness. From professional athletes who are continuously caught cursing themselves or their teammates after a bad play, to our general population athletes at OTL who can’t get that double under just yet, being pissed off is getting popular, and I don’t like it.
When I started training as a “competitive exerciser” for a lack of better words, I did it because competition was a ton of fun. I got to hang out with others who had a real passion for fitness and for the body/minds ability to go beyond its limits. To me, there was nothing more fun than doing a workout competition and in the end, just hanging out with my friends and family. I was doing it not to be like anyone else, but to improve the person that meant a lot to me, myself.
As competitive exercise becomes more popular, there are “pros” that people have begun to compare themselves to. Comparing yourself to people you watch do things as a professional on television is crazy, especially if you are new to that particular sport. I am not saying that for some, being one of those pros isn’t possible, what I am saying is to respect the hard work they have put in and natural abilities they have been blessed with in order to get where they are. You being upset because you didn’t lift the weight you wanted will not make you a better weightlifter. If you want to be a better weightlifter, do what weightlifters do, lift weight more often!
Your experience in the gym and during training should be fun and exciting. More importantly it should be a learning experience. It is a time for you to give 100% effort in everything you do and learn from all of the mistakes you make. It is a time to grow as a person by not only pushing yourself, but by supporting others as well.
Additionally, make sure your coach is providing a positive atmosphere. Coaching cues, although sometimes stern, SHOULD NOT be negative. They should be short and informative. If your coach displays a pissed off attitude when athletes make mistakes, he/she may be the reason you react or respond the way you do when you mess up. Be sure your coach is great, if not, save your money and find someone who is.
In summary, don’t let your training piss you off. Doing so will not allow you to get better and if anything will only make you worse. And if a cry baby or pissed off attitude is what you have, as speaker Eric Thomas would say, “Don’t cry to give up, cry to keep going”.